What if they aren’t out to get you but just made a silly mistake?
What if the two bad things aren’t connected, but rather ridiculous accidents?
What if it doesn’t happen just to you but rather to everyone?
What if the audience isn’t ignoring you but just can’t hear you?
And what if you flip your reasoning?
Would it change your thinking, feelings, or your outlook for the better?
Good, then assume it is so.